What’s Saving Our Lives This Winter

Today’s post by Marybeth Whalen and Ariel Lawhon | @MarybethWhalen and @ArielLawhon

The winter can be a long, hard season. Cold weather, inclement conditions and lots of time indoors can start to get to us. So when Anne Bogel asked people to share what’s saving their lives during this season, we thought it was a grand idea! So today we’re sharing, linking up over at Anne’s blog, and looking forward to hearing from others. Let us know in the comments what’s saving your life right now!

Marybeth:

Planner videos: I admit I may have a problem with watching these too much. I’m seeking help, looking into counseling, and considering a 12 step program. But in the meantime, I’ve been watching all the planner girls on You Tube who’ve shared their 2017 set-ups, and helped me set up my planner system for this year in turn. I learn from them and am inspired by them. If you’re like me and love planners, go to YouTube and search “Planner Set Up” or “Planner flip throughs” and you will come up with more videos than any one person has time to watch. #sorrynotsorry

Elliptical: Our treadmill died this past summer so we found a used elliptical and put it in my office, right by my desk. This means that I can’t pretend I don’t see it. It also means even on the worst weather days this winter, I get my workout on. I always feel better after and am infinitely glad I have this piece of equipment at my disposal.

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Russian Tea: I mix this up, put it in a Mason jar, and it is my evening drink of choice– a little substitute treat during that time I typically pour a glass of wine or want a bowl of ice cream. It’s the perfect blend of warmth and taste, if you like the taste of orange and spice. If you’d prefer a low/no calorie version, you can find it here. (I’m making it as soon as I run out of what I have!)

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The La La Land Soundtrack: It’s pretty much on repeat play around our house. The other night my daughter and I both had “Here’s to the ones who dream,” stuck in our heads and could not stop singing/humming it. No matter how much the winter doldrums get to me, they can always be lifted with a few songs from this soundtrack!

Community Bible Study: I went back to the local chapter of this international organization after a long, long absence and these Thursday morning get-togethers, with what has turned out to be a fabulous group of women, have been a weekly boost. Real community with other women is irreplaceable. And once a month we have delicious food, which isn’t too shabby either.

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Ariel:

Levoflaxacin: I woke up on January 10th feeling perfectly fine. And I did all the normal things that morning. I walked the kids to the bus stop and chatted with the other parents for a good fifteen to twenty minutes after the bus pulled away. (We do this every day. Can’t explain why, but the corner outside my house is a little block party every weekday morning. I love it!) I tidied the house and checked email and took a shower. And then, about the time that I was rinsing the conditioner from my hair, my back started to ache. By the time I sat down at my desk thirty minutes later it was like I was being swallowed by a wave. Fever and chills and total body aches. Within an hour I was immobile on the couch, which is exactly where my kids and husband found me when they came home later that day. I didn’t get out of bed for ten days. I had the flu last year and, upon visiting my doctor, was told there was nothing they could do for me. That I had to wait it out, and I might not feel better for three weeks. So even though I felt hideous and the timing was awful (I’m on deadline right now) I decided to rest and take care of myself and pray for the best. A week later the alarming side effects started showing up (I’ll spare you the details). I called my husband on the morning of the 17th and did something I’ve never done in the sixteen years we’ve been married: I told him to leave work and take me to the doctor. As it turns out, I didn’t have the flu. I had pneumonia. Really, really bad pneumonia that went untreated for seven days because I’m an idiot and thought I could diagnose myself. Moral of the story: if you have a fever for longer than three days get yourself to the doctor. I am contrary and stupid and over-confident in the health of my immune system and you don’t want to be like me. In the end I was prescribed an antibiotic called levoflaxacin. I’ve come to think of it as turpentine for the lungs and I started feeling better immediately.

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My husband: See above. Someone had to run carpool and cook dinner and do the laundry and, of course, go to work. My husband brought me Gatorade and tissue and ensured that I was at least trying to eat. He made sure the kids brushed their teeth and wore deodorant and put on clean underwear every day (they’re all big kids and you wouldn’t think they’d need the reminder but I am convinced that the young, male mind is filled with nothing but white noise with occasional flashes of panic, so yes, they need the reminder, daily). Anyway, he saved my life in a thousand tiny ways and I understand why the words “in sickness and in health” are so common in wedding vows.

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Random things: almost being finished with my new novel, my house shoes, these d’anjou pear and watercress candles I discovered at Publix, good kitty litter (We got a cat! Her name is Hazel! She poops in the house! We didn’t plan very well for that up front!), the handmade quilt my grandmother gave me twenty years ago.

So, we’re dying to know, what’s saving YOUR life right now?

About Marybeth Whalen

Marybeth Whalen is the co-founder of She Reads, mother of six, and life-long reader. She is also the author of two novels with a third out in July: The Mailbox, She Makes It Look Easy, and The Guest Book.

6 Responses to What’s Saving Our Lives This Winter

  1. Heather February 2, 2017 at 10:17 pm #

    You are both too cute. Hope A feels better soon!

  2. Marybeth Whalen February 2, 2017 at 10:17 pm #

    Thanks Heather– you’re pretty cute yourself!

  3. Jo February 2, 2017 at 10:17 pm #

    Fun post and fun reading the lists! Hope you’re both feeling 100% well again soon!

  4. Sarah February 2, 2017 at 10:17 pm #

    That Russian tea is intriguing & the LaLa land soundtrack is fantastic! I’m trying to bake something challenging at least once a week to give me a goal & it’s something I enjoy.

  5. Kelli February 3, 2017 at 10:17 pm #

    My mom. Because my two year old is threatening to snatch what ounce of sanity I have left and flush it down the toilet. Literally…the toilet is her new favorite toy. Were it not for my mom watching her two days I week, one of us might not make it through the winter, and she’s a scrappy little bugger so I’m guessing I’d be the one to go.

    Also, Russian tea is my FAVORITE!

  6. Marybeth Whalen February 6, 2017 at 10:17 pm #

    Sarah– your baking sends me into a craving fit every time you post on Insta!! And Kelli– goodness do I remember those days!! I also had my mom nearby and it was a blessing. Hope you can find a moment to sit peacefully, read a book and enjoy some good ole Russian tea– Sarah, you have to try it!!

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